In the Garden of Gethsemane Jesus prays. "Father ... if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me (Matthew 26:39)." In a totally predestined world, why would Jesus ask this? He knows the Father, and He knows the nature and character of the Father. I think Jesus remembers when God desired to destroy the people of Israel in Exodus 32. God's anger burned against the people, and God told Moses to leave Him to His anger and desire to destroy a stiff-necked, disobedient, and faithless people. Moses tells God, "they are your people." Moses reminded God of Abraham, Isaac, and Israel. Exodus 32:19 says, "God relented." In the story of Jonah, God tells Jonah to preach destruction to the people of Nineveh, but the people repented. God relented and forgave the people of Nineveh, And here in Matthew 26, Jesus seems to understand that God, sometimes, changes His plan. This isn't the southern, traditional view, is it?
I think three things are happening here:
1. In Wesleyan thought, God has an overall plan that is unstoppable. We say it in the Apostles Creed, when we say we believe in the resurrection (an unstoppable event), the judgment of all people (living and dead), our resurrection with Jesus as believers, and the return of Jesus. Wesley viewed God as a loving Father ... not a ruling monarch. But God's purpose, grace, love, and power (in God's character and Spirit), are all universally available to those who believe. And God's plan will happen, though only the Father knows the when of the future.
2. Jesus is praying knowingly in the Garden of Gethsemane. Like any other human, Jesus would like to avoid the suffering, the pain, the grief, and the death that is ahead. So Jesus does what people do ... He asked. In a song about Isaac's impending death as an offering by Abraham, Andrew Peterson writes, "And even though You take him, still I ever will obey, but maker of this mountain, please make another way." Abraham's faith was rewarded in another way. Jesus knows the Father is sovereign, perfect, and wise. He asks for an alternate plan, but He trusts God to know what is best. So, within the same prayer, Jesus said, "Yet not as I will, but as You will."
3. The other blatantly obvious part of this passage, is the path to God's plans ... the ones we see, and those that are possible alternatives. That path starts and ends with prayer ... we give it to God. That path starts and ends with trust ... we rely on the God who is worthy of our faith. That path starts and ends with release ... we place the situation, and our alternate ideas, into the hands of the one who knows the whole picture.
How do you pray? ... because this prayer can be prayed in every situation. Do you have an enemy persecuting you? Pray God's will for that person. Do you have a relationship that is perplexing you? Pray for God's plan for that person. Are you facing loss? Pray God's will and plan, so that the loss becomes God's property and God's problem to solve. And then, maybe the hardest thing ... follow where God leads, even if it leads to a cross.
Do you believe in the God who makes some really big promises? "I have called you by name, and you are Mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you, and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned, and the flames will not set you ablaze. For I am the Lord your God ... (Isaiah 43:1-3)." BELIEVE!